tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4502944316472743072024-03-13T06:29:50.526+00:00Charlotte Leith. WordsCopywriter, Creative human, Carbohydrate FiendCharlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.comBlogger108125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-55652921231885948842017-07-02T14:26:00.001+01:002017-07-02T14:27:24.413+01:00The summer of Love (Island)<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This summer a new crew of tanned, toned wannabes descended on a luxury villa in the Balearic Isles for ITV2's Love Island. As with previous years, I was hooked from the first episode. I'm not the only person to feel this way. Love Island has captured the nation's attention in an extraordinary way, social media is awash with commentary and national newspapers are providing daily coverage. Celebrities like Liam Gallagher and Adele have even confessed to watching the show.<br />
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There are, of course, the naysayers. Those who think that watching reality TV is the same as eating junk food: unhealthy and ultimately dangerous consumption. It riles me that some people snobbishly profess that educated and intelligent people shouldn't enjoy so-called 'trash-tv' so here are 5 reasons why I love Love Island, and why you should too:<br />
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1. While I don't have much in common with the contestants in terms of protein consumption and hours spent at the sunbeds, there have been many moments of real, raw emotion this season that I can relate to. The Camilla/Jonny/Tyla love triangle played out like a biopic based on my teenage years while Olivia's drunk alter-ego is a girl we all know too well. The relationships these people are forming are sincere and honest and are a pleasure to watch.<br />
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2. Softly-spoken and shy Camilla is the stand-out star of this year's Love Island. A rumoured former flame of Prince Harry, a humanitarian and a total babe to boot, Camilla has been kind and caring and completely true to herself. When the aforementioned Jonny (King of the snakes) rolled his eyes and asked Camilla if she was a feminist, she proudly proclaimed "Shouldn't we all be?". Truer words were never spoken.<br />
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3. I am not a person who is down with the kids and it wasn't too long ago that I had to Google the word 'bae' after seeing it pop up in countless places and having absolutely no idea what it meant. Love Island has allowed me a glimpse into the everyday vocabulary of the youth of today and I will now seamlessly use words like 'melt' and 'muggy' in all communications.<br />
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4. The unfeasibly buff bodies of the men and women of Love Island serve as a very harsh reminder that I should put down the cheese and crackers and pick up some sort of dumbbell. The girls' ability to be perfectly preened, wearing a full face of make-up in the blistering heat has discouraged me from going to Sainsbury's in my pyjamas on more than one occasion.<br />
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5. In a world that is full of darkness, where almost every day we are confronted with sadness and tragedy, Love Island is pure escapism. It knows it's not deep or symbolic but its entertaining editing and acerbic voice over make it a wonderful way to unwind after a long day.<br />
<br />Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-4244645659442260292017-02-14T14:16:00.000+00:002017-02-14T14:16:57.595+00:00Bring on the Spring.Like many people I vowed to start the new year on the right note. I'd eat better, drink less and exercise more. I promised myself I'd try to leave work on time in order cultivate the perfect work/life balance and to save my sanity. However, since the Christmas break I have felt permanently on the back foot, struggling to juggle an increasingly stressful job with a social life and failing to find any time for personal admin.<br />
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We are fat and skint and jaded in January, suffering from a physical and emotional festive hangover. The Sunday night dread feels more dreadful than ever and we scour job adverts for something new, something better. Then, before you know it the light mornings are tentatively tip-toeing in and it's halfway through February already. The list of friends I've not caught up with is as long as the cruel Scottish winter, and an unforgivable amount of unanswered texts lay heavy on my heart.<br />
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The beginning of the year is a bit like a Monday: it can feel long and relentless yet fraught and frantic all at once. It is often tinged with guilt about resolutions broken and chances not taken. But, it is the start of something. A year full of fun and friends and possibility. As the sun shines through my window today I am temporarily able to abolish my anxieties and look forward to the future. Bring on the Spring.Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-55844457494410804242017-01-04T14:18:00.001+00:002017-01-04T14:18:45.303+00:00Girl Talk - things that can be infuriating about being female. <div>
I endeavour to write more in 2017 but in the meantime here's a list of some trivial things that sometimes annoy me about being a woman (although normally it's pretty damn great). </div>
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1. Emotion fuelled indecisiveness. </div>
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Have you laid on your bed wearing your jacket and shoes and cried at your boyfriend this week about not knowing what you want for dinner? I know have. </div>
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2. False eyelashes. </div>
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They are impossible to put on but if your friends/colleagues/lovers are successfully wearing them next to you in a Facebook photo you will look at least 50% uglier than them. </div>
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3. The constant period fear. </div>
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Was that a particular sweaty spin class or have I just started the world's heaviest period? Should I just stay on this stationary bike forever?</div>
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4. Bras. </div>
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Yes, they are necessary (especially if you have big boobs like me) but man can they be uncomfortable. There is no greater feeling than whipping that instrument of torture off after a long, hard day. Am I right ladies?</div>
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5. Kirby grips. </div>
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You'll buy them in their millions throughout your life and have probably littered strangers homes with them at times but when you decide to do a fancy up-do for your cousin's wedding they will be nowhere to be found. </div>
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6. Wine hangovers. </div>
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I love knocking back the vino with reckless abandon with my gal pals on any given night. Sadly the result is often projectile vomiting and a headache that leaves me feeling like I've got a brain injury.</div>
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Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-79207679126992266752016-12-28T23:05:00.000+00:002016-12-28T23:05:45.416+00:00I was hygge before it was cool. Last month I went to my parents house for dinner, the lighting was low and candles were burning. 'It's huh-gah,' my mum proclaimed and with that the term 'hygge' officially became mainstream.<br />
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The thing is, I'm Scottish so I'm used to long, dark, cold winters. And I'm lazy, so I'm used to long periods sat on the couch in fleecy pyjamas with the heating on. Since buying a flat 4 years ago I have shunned expensive nights on the town in towering heels for cheap nights in the flat by candlelight. It's not that I'm trendy, it's that I'm tired and skint.<br />
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I don't need a 'Little Book of Hygge,' I was rocking a grey cotton lounge combo long before EasyJet started offering cheap returns to Copenhagen.<br />
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Like 'Normcore' and the 'Dad bod' before it, 'hygge' has taken a simple concept and given it a rebrand. Staying in, being at home, spending time with family: all everyday, unglamorous albeit fulfilling achievements. Yet without the sexy skandi terminology why are we so ashamed to just stay at home and vegetate?<br />
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The period between Christmas and New Year is the perfect time to exercise your right to lounge, so put on your comfiest pyjama bottoms <span style="text-align: center;">and a jumper that has seen better days and chill the fuck out. </span><br />
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<span style="text-align: center;"><br /></span>Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-34048570904755288692016-11-21T08:32:00.002+00:002016-11-21T08:33:11.966+00:00An ode to the Pret Christmas sandwich. My favourite part of Christmas is the eating: tonne boxes of Celebrations, M&S party food and enough roast potatoes to cater for a small principality. There is no festive feed mightier however, in my humble opinion, than Pret's Veggie Christmas Lunch.<br />
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A Christmas sandwich is a wonderful thing: an edible celebration contained within two slices of delicious bread. It is a taste of the best of times that can be eaten at the worst of times, a little bit of festive cheer for a long train journey or a joyless lunch stuck at your desk.<br />
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Pret offers 2 Christmas sandwiches (3 if you count the vegan one, I don't) and while the traditional meat number is delicious it is the vegetarian alternative that has my heart. Perfectly roasted chunks of butternut squash sit alongside something akin to stuffing, nutty and rich with a surprisingly fruity edge. Add in some mayo, some rocket and a smattering of crispy onions and you have a taste sensation. Just thinking abut said sandwich has made me ravenous.<br />
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Basically what I'm saying here is go to Pret today for your lunch, buy it, eat it and feel fucking fantastically festive. No need to thank me.<br />
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<br />Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-10320627730838033072016-11-16T08:40:00.000+00:002016-11-16T08:40:30.181+00:00Treat Yo'SelfSometimes, despite your best efforts, the simple stresses of life permeate your soul. I'm talking about the everyday Everest's: a particularly painful week at work, an empty bank account a fortnight before payday, the anxiety of an overdue smear. Like Jenga, these individual non-issues stack up unsteadily before one rogue piece (a misplaced set of keys, a finger burnt while cooking dinner) renders the whole thing a messy heap.<br />
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So how can we help ourselves when we feel overwhelmed? 'Don't worry' is a comforting phrase but I'm the kind of person who assumes my boyfriend's been in a terrible car accident if he's over 15 minutes late getting home from work. When I was young I would lock myself in my bedroom and cry if a member of my household was poorly, worried about what fate awaited them.<br />
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So, to stop myself from crying in the work toilets or reaching for a weeknight bottle of wine, I've found a few things that help me look after myself:<br />
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<u>Sheet Masks</u><br />
I am obsessed with Japanese style sheet masks. Soaked in cooling serum, these super thin cloth/paper masks require the wearer lie down for a minimum of 15 minutes. May I recommend pairing with a comedy podcast for ultimate escapism.<br />
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<u>Walking</u><br />
Going for a walk in the crisp winter weather is perfect for clearing your head. I find I get some of my most rational thinking done when powering home from work after a hectic day. <br />
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<u>Netflix</u><br />
Get into a TV show with loads of episodes and get caught up in somebody else's world for a little while. Warning, binge-watching American Horror Story may result in some weird dreams.<br />
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<u>Writing</u><br />
While my inability to write as regularly as I'd like makes me agitated, I find quiet comfort in composing these mundane monologues. Carefully selecting words and phrases challenges my brain and calms me down.<br />
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<u>Eating pizza in my pants</u><br />
Because sometimes carbs and the Kardashians is just what you need...<br />
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<br />Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-29198864417169527322016-10-31T09:54:00.003+00:002016-10-31T09:54:39.122+00:00Forget FOMO, this Autumn it's all about GOMO (Getting Out More Often)<div class="m-2056338065489595465p1" style="background: white;">
<span class="m-2056338065489595465s1"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;">As autumn makes itself truly known with a blanket of glorious
russet leaves underfoot</span></span><span class="m-2056338065489595465apple-converted-space"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;"> </span></span><span class="m-2056338065489595465s1"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;">and a cool, crisp chill in the air, it's hard to resist the
overwhelming urge to hibernate. Outside is cold and inside is so very warm (if
you are as lavish with the central heating as I am).</span></span><span class="m-2056338065489595465apple-converted-space"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;"> </span></span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="m-2056338065489595465s1"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;">The term hygge is this year's buzzword and while the Danish
wellbeing philosophy of hiding away from the elements certainly has its place
we shouldn't use this as an excuse to avoid living life. The lead up to
Christmas is jam-packed with fun things to do, so I’m going to embrace autumn
and GOMO (Get Out More Often).<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="m-2056338065489595465s1"><u><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;">Halloween<o:p></o:p></span></u></span></div>
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<span class="m-2056338065489595465s1"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;">Halloween is an underrated holiday in my opinion. Every year
since I was small I’d start planning a costume weeks in advance and my Mum
would ensure the house was suitably spooky for a night of dooking and guising.
This year I’m hosting a small soiree complete with cake pop eyballs and bloody
punch, the scariest thing will be fitting more than 2 people, in costume,
inside my tiny flat! <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="m-2056338065489595465s1"><u><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;">Bonfire Night<o:p></o:p></span></u></span></div>
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<span class="m-2056338065489595465s1"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;">I’m a little bit scared of DIY displays after a rogue rocket
came straight for me and burnt a hole in my brand new Skechers in 2001. That
being said there are some perfectly safe Firework spectaculars going on all
over the country where you can watch the sky light up in glorious technicolour.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="m-2056338065489595465s1"><u><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;">Autumn rambles<o:p></o:p></span></u></span></div>
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<span class="m-2056338065489595465s1"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;">There are few things more satisfying than walking through a
carpet of crunchy leaves. Autumn is breathtakingly beautiful in its gold and
copper glory and the weather is perfect for long walks with loved ones. Grab
your coat, wrap up warm and head out into the great outdoors. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<u><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;">Run for it<o:p></o:p></span></u></div>
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial; font-size: 9.5pt;">I’ve signed up for a
hill running event in March (full disclosure, it seemed like a good idea after
2 glasses of wine) so I’m going to use the autumn months to get into running. I
figure if I can find the willpower to pull myself away from Netflix to do
exercise outside in the cold then I’ll feel unstoppable.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-91320349098891056342016-10-07T14:14:00.003+01:002016-10-07T14:14:49.810+01:00The perennial pains of shopping for wedding guest get-up<br />
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I love weddings. Dressing up, drinking all day, slow-dancing with the one you love: all excellent things. I adore watching as soulmates exchange vows, best men tear up and Fathers beam proudly. Full disclosure, I am also obsessed with canapés. What I strongly dislike however, is finding the perfect outfit to wear to watch your pals get hitched. </div>
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Despite my penchant for the colour pink I'm not really a girly girl and when donning my gladrags I like to feel comfortable and look cool. The unofficial uniform of a female wedding guest is body-con or flashy florals painstakingly picked from your local department store. These particular styles make me feel fat and frumpy and uninspired (no offence Coast, it's not you, it's me). </div>
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This week has been a race against time to find something, anything, to wear to my cousins impending nuptials. I am one high-necked, unflattering dress away from a full fraud investigation on my credit card. Yesterday, in a leather pencil skirt, I threw on my running shoes and hotfooted it across town on my lunch break in search of something spectacular. It was a sweaty affair.</div>
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What I found was something safe: a black, boxy blazer/blouse hybrid that when teamed with black shorts looks smart and simple. Yes, it could probably also be worn to a funeral but with a 'statement' bag (when the cashier said this I immediately liked the bag 75% less) it will do the job.</div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The life-saving blouse. £36 <a href="http://www.topshop.com/en/tsuk/product/clothing-427/tops-443/textured-satin-double-breasted-pyjama-shirt-5960393?bi=0&ps=20" target="_blank">Topshop</a></td></tr>
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Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-77918985198960492192016-09-20T14:20:00.000+01:002016-09-20T14:20:04.202+01:00Things they don't tell you on Instagram #2<br />
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We are living in the age of the #health hashtag. Our social streams are awash with clean eaters and bikini clad burpee babes. Our beloved carbohydrates have been replaced with vegetable imposters and I'm here to say what others won't: cauliflower rice is pretty crap. </div>
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Let's face it, cauliflower would be lucky to make it into anybody's fruit & veg top 5 unless smothered in a rich, silken cheese sauce. So when you have to whizz it in the food processor, squeeze out the liquid (rendering your fave dish towel unusable) and flavour it with a million things to make it palatable it seems like a waste of bloody time. </div>
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Courgetti is marginally less offensive but is best enjoyed raw so that when smothered with bolognese and half a block of Parmesan it has a texture that is vaguely akin to pasta. As soon as you try and warm it through it becomes a soggy, squidgy mess. </div>
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Lettuce wraps are also a thing and I am ashamed to admit that I have, on occasion, used them to wrap fajita filling in place of a gluten laden, kcal-tastic tortilla. But I didn't enjoy it, I was just trying to be 'good'. </div>
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I know we should look after our bodies and that replacing refined carbohydrates with more nutritious alternatives is a positive lifestyle choice, and one which I endeavour to follow (at some point). But let's cut the bullshit: pasta is delicious, rice is nice and bread is best. Nothing compares...</div>
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Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-39972279583504096242016-08-10T22:42:00.001+01:002016-08-10T22:42:26.940+01:00the consequences of living for the weekend.I, like many of my peers, am the epitome of a weekend warrior. A classic 9-5er, by COP (or whatever other moronic corporate acronym you despise but definitely use in work emails) Friday I can hear a Prosecco cork pop from 50m.<br />
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The thing is I'm just not built for binge drinking anymore. As I write this, on a Wednesday evening, I am still faintly aware of Sunday's abhorrent hangover lurking around in my temperamental gut. It has taken 2 pizzas, a Nandos, a mountain of mac and cheese, endless cups of tea, countless cans of Diet Coke and hundreds of comforting cuddles to help get me back to normal. And that's just the physical symptoms.<br />
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For me, the emotional aftermath of a heavy weekend is often as debilitating as the actual hangover. I feel anxious and sad (especially when my rum-fuelled drunk persona has been 'annoying crying girl') for days and the slightest thing can bring me to tears. Scuffing the shit out of brand new silver boots for instance.<br />
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This week, drowning in the depths of this harrowing hang, I cry; "never again". Until next Saturday that is...<br />
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<br />Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-25685664307497446462016-06-17T15:06:00.001+01:002016-06-17T15:06:28.122+01:00It’s not easy being green<br />
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I’m a jealous person. Not in the malicious and cruel way that can cost people relationships, instead my envy builds slowly and steadily turning my whole being green like a slothful Hulk. </div>
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Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a monster and more often than not I feel positive emotions towards my peers: happiness, pride, joy, awe. But every so often I suffer from an overwhelming and intense bout of envy that renders me miserable. </div>
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I want everything I do not have and feel achingly dissatisfied with my wardrobe, my body, my job, my life. These periods can be disastrous for my self-confidence and my credit card. The thing is this negative emotion can often be the catalyst for something good.</div>
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Today I was reading this week’s The Dolly Mail by <a href="https://twitter.com/dollyalderton" target="_blank">Dolly Alderton</a>, an email newsletter which resonates so strongly with me I sometimes feel as though Dolly and I are intrinsically linked in someway, and I was overcome with jealousy. Jealous of Dolly’s perfect prose and jealous of the fact that her writing is also her career. </div>
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However, rather than letting myself be consumed by it, I was inspired. Inspired to spend my lunch break typing furiously rather than reading the dirty Daily Mail’s sidebar of shame. Sometimes it takes somebody else’s success to give you the chutzpah to just fucking do you. </div>
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The thing is the grass isn’t always greener on the other side, life is what you make it. Envy is a deadly sin, but sometimes it’s just what you need. </div>
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Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-81925034158027747572016-04-13T09:02:00.000+01:002016-04-13T09:03:40.599+01:00Things they don't tell you on Instagram #1<div class="MsoNormal">
I spend approximately 86% of my day on Instagram, looking at
other people’s pictures and wondering where I went wrong in life to be so
flawed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This series exposes the truth
behind some of social media’s most ubiquitous myths.</div>
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<u>White painted floorboards are a bitch to maintain<o:p></o:p></u></div>
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Whitewashed floorboards are the epitome of country chic:
bright, clean and perfectly rustic. When I discovered there were beasties
living in my bedroom carpet last year I recoiled and then rejoiced, FINALLY a
reason to rip up my gross beige carpet. The carpet removal revealed relatively
even albeit rainbow painted floorboards beneath and after a quick sand and a
quicker clean I was ready to make my Pinterest-perfect fantasy floors a
reality. <o:p></o:p></div>
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What I soon realised is that painting the floor in a flat
the size of a cupboard is a logistical nightmare, but, after 3 weeks of leaping
and jumping over islands of wet paint and 3 haphazard coats, we were finished! The
room suddenly seemed bathed in light and with the addition of a faux-Persian
rug and a flattering Instagram filter, the boudoir was complete.<o:p></o:p></div>
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A couple of days in it became apparent that my stark white
floor was incredibly unforgiving. Fluff, dust and alarming amounts of my hair
littered the bedroom. My dreams of a Skandi-style, fuss-free way of life were
shattered and with my dustbuster in hand I embarked upon a clean-up mission. I’ve* been cleaning up ever since…</div>
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*Disclaimer: my boyfriend probably hoovers more than me.</div>
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It’s currently just over two weeks into Lent, which for me
means 40 days and 40 nights of trying (and sometimes failing) not to eat crisps
and chocolate. The thing is I’m not really all that religious but for whatever
reason, maybe it IS a higher power, I am finally able to exercise some
semblance of self-control.<o:p></o:p></div>
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For those who didn’t spend 13 years in the Catholic school
system, Pancake day is simply a wonderful excuse to eat batter based treats but
for me, Shrove Tuesday has always marked the start of a personal challenge. A
campaign against my gluttonous, greedy ways. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I have half-heartedly been on a diet since my early teens,
trying to find the secret to skinny. Along the way I’ve mostly just discovered
how much I bloody love carbs, and cheese and things that are deep-fried.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div>
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My relationship with exercise is also predictably rocky. I
love the way it makes me feel when I get there but the biggest hurdle is
getting out of the door. This exercise dread often wins and with that comes an
oppressive wave of guilt (the Catholicism coming out to play again). <o:p></o:p></div>
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I may seem like somewhat of a hypocrite, embracing one
religious practice while ignoring many of the others but for this small period
of time I can try a little harder, push a little further and eat a little less
rubbish. And once it’s all over, who knows, maybe I’ll be a changed woman… <o:p></o:p></div>
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…or maybe not. <o:p></o:p></div>
Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-54708091812056709442016-02-10T09:03:00.002+00:002016-02-10T09:43:43.290+00:00#RelationshipGoals<div class="MsoNormal">
A few months ago I started writing this piece for the annual
Elle Writing Competition but predictably I got distracted by real life (most
likely a Keeping Up With The Kardashians marathon or some sort of baked good)
and didn’t submit it in time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
subject was ‘Relationship Goals’ and this is the egotistical outcome…<o:p></o:p></div>
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I have a wonderfully supportive family, effervescent and
inspiring friends and a loyal and loving boyfriend. I am lucky in that I am
surrounded by positive people who enrich my life in so many ways. For me, the
relationship that takes the most work is the one I have with myself.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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At 28 I feel less like myself than ever. I can be plagued
with insecurities and irrational anxieties. At school I was smart, at
university I was partying and now, in my late twenties, I sometimes feel lost. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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The older I get, the more self-critical I become. It’s easy
to doubt my talents, question my purpose and criticise my body. Once a bold and
confident clotheshorse I now find myself in loose fitting black clothing or
baggy boyfriend jeans. I don’t feel sexy or pretty, so I cover up, which in
turn makes me feel less sexy and less pretty.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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And it’s not just the superficial things that lead me to a semi-schizophrenic
war on myself: I no longer believe my own hype. Back in the day I’d fake it
till I made it, but now I regularly work myself into a tizzy desperately trying
to impress.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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I don’t think that the humble hashtag is helping. Social
Media makes it easy for us to worship false goals: the ultimate bikini body,
the Pinterest-perfect abode, the sexy, shiny social set. We now constantly
compare our apparently mediocre lives with the carefully curated snapshots of
others. At what cost?<o:p></o:p></div>
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I’ve decided that in 2016 I will work to maintain my
marvellous relationships, take each day as the glorious gift that it is and
above all, be kind to myself. This is not a goal, it’s a mantra. <o:p></o:p></div>
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N.B. #RelationshipGoals has a whopping 2,031,388 posts on Instagram. Let's stop posting our ambitions on the Internet and instead work on making them a reality. </div>
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Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-12846114382572489902015-12-15T21:07:00.001+00:002015-12-15T21:07:50.223+00:00In defence of being a Taylor Swift fan girl.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I consider myself to be somebody with decent taste in music.
I’m not saying I’m a music maven by any stretch of the imagination but on the
whole I enjoy some damn good tunes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
like approximately 80% of what they play on BBC6 Music so if that doesn’t make
me ‘cool’ and ‘hip’ I don’t know what does.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Generally I like my melodies with a heavy side of melancholy:
Bon Iver, Frightened Rabbit, The Smiths, The National, to name but a few. But I
also have a massive place in my heart (and my headphones) for the tremendous
tones of Taylor Swift. From her cutesy country beginnings to her pure pop
perfection, her music simply makes me happy.<o:p></o:p></div>
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So-called cool kids claim to like Tay-Tay ironically but I
am an unashamed Swiftie, with 2 t-shirts and a pair of Taylor Swift maracas to
prove it. Is there such a thing as a guilty pleasure? Shouldn’t we just feel
good about listening to music that we love? <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Some of my favourite memories this year have
involved dancing with reckless abandon to ‘Shake it off’.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Then there’s the debate about Swift as a woman; she’s too
nice, she can’t hold on to a man, how dare she remove her music from Spotify.
She’s a young woman whose whole life is playing out in the public eye, I think
she does a pretty good job of holding her shit together. And with a celeb squad
made up of some of the coolest ladies around, she’s obviously got something
going for her.<o:p></o:p></div>
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For impressionable young girls, she’s a role model: a kind,
goofy girl who talks about the importance of self-worth and sings songs about
being hurt. She is the youngest woman ever to be included in the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Forbes </i>100 Most Powerful Woman list.
Yes, I am a Taylor Swift fan girl, and proud of it. <o:p></o:p></div>
<br />Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-41748478575895039022015-07-14T22:23:00.000+01:002015-07-14T22:28:40.228+01:00When did I become an adult and how do I go back in time?Here's how I know I am technically an adult:<br />
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1. I consider kitchen roll and fabric softener to be essential shopping list items.<br />
2. I never run out of toilet paper.<br />
3. I make salad dressings from scratch, regularly.<br />
4. I'm nearly 28.<br />
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Seriously though, HOW DID THIS HAPPEN? I made the idiot mistake of downloading Timehop and as well as reminding me of some horrendous haircuts, and highlighting my heinous love of posting cryptic song lyrics in times of intense heartbreak it has also made me feel old.<br />
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I remember heading off to uni like it was yesterday, my suitcase full to the brim with denim skirts, sequin boleros and all the beads Primark had to offer. Although 10 years have passed I still feel like that fresh faced 17 year old with the whole world stretched out in front of me!<br />
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But so much has changed: I've gone from Halls of Residence to homeowner, from nights out to 9-5. My peers are Doctors, Lawyers, Mothers, Fathers, Husbands and Wives. We have bills to pay and a seemingly endless stream of expensive weddings to attend.<br />
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Then there are the physical symptoms of ageing. In my drinking heyday I could knock back approximately 50 VKs and still get up for my 9am lecture. Today, a couple of glasses of wine on a Thursday night results in a gallon of full fat Coke and a bacon roll come Friday morning. Not forgetting the constant creaks and unidentifiable aches my body is now subject to.<br />
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How am I supposed to be an adult when I still feel like a child? I still phone my mum and dad whenever anything goes wrong, despite the fact that they live in another country the majority of the time. Sometimes I just eat a bowl of tuna for dinner. And when somebody in the street tells their rambunctious child to watch out for the 'lady' I always assume there's another, older, more adult female beside me in an expensive dress who has her shit well and truly together.<br />
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When my Mum was my age she had a 2 year old child, I have a 2 year old crusty mascara that may or may not be past its best. That's basically the same yeah?<br />
<br />Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-54128370851134788472015-04-02T20:57:00.000+01:002015-04-02T21:06:40.618+01:00DOES everyone have a book in them?Most weeknights when I'm home alone I lounge about on the couch watching Netflix and avoiding doing my washing up. Tonight I had settled down, jogging bottoms on in preparation to cry myself tired at the latest episode of Grey's Anatomy when it occurred to me to sit down and type this piece. Because I love to write, I love writing frivolous and self-indulgent posts with the intention of making people laugh. I love honest, descriptive story-telling that comes from the heart. But I am also lazy. I would love to write a book but I can barely gather the energy to write a text message to my Mum confirming I'll see her for lunch on Saturday, I'd love to be a supermodel but I can't put down the carbs.<br />
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I recently read Not That Kind of Girl by Lena Dunham and it has given me impetus to start writing again. I know Lena Dunham is a bit of a Marmite character but I love pretty much everything that she does, and the fact that's she's BFFs with Taylor Swift is just the icing on the cake. The book is funny and frank, sassy and smart and completely relatable. I know I will be able to pick it up and read it over and over again. That's the kind of book I want to read and the kind of book I dream of writing.<br />
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But how do you even go about writing a book? My ancient laptop is currently running a demo version of Microsoft Word and I only have 11 more chances to use it before it will force me to enter a Product Key, a Product Key which I definitely disposed off with the box it came in 5 years ago. I'm fairly confident a book cannot be achieved in 11 sittings. And where will I find the time? In between work and the aforementioned lounging, I need to see my boyfriend, use my spiralizer and pretend to go to the gym. And what should I write about? As you may have gathered my real life isn't quite as glamorous as my Instagram profile might suggest, I'm not sure I could get much more than a chapter out of last weekend's dark and painful hangover.<br />
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Maybe I'll just stick to blogging...Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-14628158712962577382014-12-16T21:49:00.000+00:002014-12-16T21:49:01.091+00:00absolutely full of Christmas fear.From my September birthday onwards I wait for Christmas with bated breath and then it comes around, too quickly, in a prosecco-induced haze of sequins and chocolate wrappers. It's the most wonderful time of the year, they say. IS IT?<br />
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CASH<br />
December is an expensive month. For some reason everybody gets a hundred times more social and you could easily go out for drinks every night of the week, so you do. Not to mention three course Christmas meals, novelty jumpers and party clothes (heavily embellished, bejewelled disco frocks are NOT cheap). I'm hoping for a lottery win so my family and friends get more than a lump of coal this year.<br />
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WAISTLINE<br />
Tins of biscuits, jars of sweeties, vats of mulled wine: Christmas is an eating challenge unlike any other. This 2 week long party is sponsored by saturated fat. The workplace is particularly treacherous, with suppliers and clients and kindly colleagues bringing in tubs of tempting treats on a daily basis. Add in all that seasonal booze and you're all set for a Christmas bod akin to Santa Claus.<br />
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PARTY WOES<br />
Once you've picked out the perfect ensemble and hit the town the reality of Christmas cavorting sets in. Your favourite bars and clubs are full of obnoxious office parties in cracker hats and comedy shirts and the bar queues are so long you'll sober up between rounds of Jägerbombs. Then comes the epic journey home in the freezing cold where an available taxi is an impossibility and you finally realise that bare legs were a bad idea.<br />
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HEALTH<br />
By mid-December your relaxing summer escape seems like an eternity ago and you are completely burnt-out. This combined with a subtle yet consistent holiday hangover does not result in a cold and flu fighting machine. Germs are everywhere and they will inevitably find their way into your chest just in time for your time off.<br />
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Regardless of all these things I still LOVE Christmas. It's a magical time that we get to spend with the people we love and it also comes with presents, and pigs in blankets, and port. Maybe it actually is the most wonderful time of the year.<br />
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<br />Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-84603816350212305942014-07-23T21:45:00.001+01:002014-07-23T21:47:56.729+01:00serious summer anxietyWhen it comes to small talk there's nothing that fills an awkward silence at the office fridge like a banal comment about the weather, especially when that weather is extreme. Us Scots are used to summers with the heating on so the past few weeks of wonderfully warm weather has been a real talking point, with the masses in agreement that everything is better when the sun is shining.<br />
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The thing is, I'm not sure I agree. Don't get me wrong, the idea of hot weather is lovely but the reality makes me anxious, and here's why:<br />
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<u>Dressing Appropriately</u><br />
There's a big difference between summer clothes and summer holiday clothes. Sadly those bum-cheek flashing shorts, while perfect for the beach, are not deemed suitable office attire. Also, have you tried wearing black skinny jeans in this heat? It's akin to torture.<br />
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<u>Bikini Fear</u><br />
When it's hot, that extra half stone you put on after too many Christmas Quality Streets might as well be half a ton.You will be warm, you will be sweaty and all your clothes will feel like they belong to a toddler. Oh, and then you have to wear a bikini, great. In fact, I am drinking a green juice as I type this, hoping for a miracle.<br />
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<u>Getting Places</u><br />
Walking anywhere at speed is a no-go unless you want to arrive at your destination blotchy, damp and frizzy (I'm a head sweater). Buses are either steamy and sweaty, or boiling and stinking of BO and I'm not a cyclist myself but I can imagine that's a moist affair.<br />
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<u>Being at work and not outside</u><br />
Let's face it, sods law dictates that the best weather will be when you're stuck in a sweltering office with nothing but a shared fan to keep you cool. Come the weekend the clouds will gather and the rain will literally piss on your picnic. Spending your lunch break sunning yourself outside will only make returning to work more painful, trust me, it's not worth it.<br />
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So yes, sometimes I wish for winter. For chic woollen coats, opaque tights and numb fingers and toes. But I'll be the first to complain when this scorcher of a summer ceases, I'm fickle like that.<br />
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<br />Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-68899440877663529582014-06-10T14:10:00.002+01:002014-06-10T14:10:51.711+01:00Completely Self(ie)-ObsessedI started a new job this week and on day three my photo was taken for the website and FYI it is THE WORST PHOTO EVER. Granted I am prone to hyperbole but seriously, it's revolting. The thing is for the past year or so I have been churning out grade A pictures of myself: flawless skin, supermodel pout, the lot! I am completely selfie-obsessed but what damage is it doing to me in the long term?<br />
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Not only do people think I am vain and vapid, I have also started to compare myself to an artificial version of me, and I certainly do not measure up. I feel pressure to look like beautiful celebrities but worse than that I also feel a pressure to look like my most shiny, Instagram-d self, the Charlotte you see (and Like) in my Facebook profile pictures.</div>
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The beauty of the selfie is you can take as many pictures as you want and pick the one where you look thinnest, coolest, most interesting (or in my case the one where my nose looks least like Michael Jackson's). Then you can add a filter that makes your eyes pop, your skin glow and your hair shine. It's like magic. But it's not real life. In real life I'm probably rocking eye bags for days and a spot akin to vesuvius on my chin.<br />
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I should probably stop taking selfies, I should get outside and do some exercise and work on feeling good inside instead of focusing on the outside. They say the first step is admitting you have a problem... my name is Charlotte and I'm a selfieholic.<br />
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Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-75412059413787106732014-05-28T09:42:00.000+01:002014-05-28T09:42:14.894+01:00The reality of being a single homeowner in your mid-twenties<div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial; font-size: small;">
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Before buying my own place I was back at home with my mum and dad, I paid them a little in digs but what was left of my fairly humble wage went on nights out, holidays and Topshop sprees. I would eat out a lot and think nothing about dropping money on teeth whitening strips or long weekends away.<u></u><u></u></div>
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Then, they decided to sell our family home and buy a derelict farmhouse in rural France and in doing so were able to give me money to put a deposit down on a little one bed flat. Suddenly I was paying a mortgage, buildings insurance, life insurance, council tax, utility bills, internet and TV bills all by myself as well as trying to keep my social life alive and kicking.<u></u><u></u></div>
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A year on and I have racked up a fair bit of debt, all manageable, but it stills plagues every decision I make. Spending money on new clothes fills me with an overwhelming sense of guilt yet I do it, my boyfriend suggests a fun activity and I book it. I am eternally envious of colleagues who have enough disposable income to pay for a constant stream of ASOS parcels, and friends who still live at home with a fully stocked fridge!<u></u><u></u></div>
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I have already had to shell out over a grand to get my roof fixed, my obscure brand washing machine is temperamental and my third-hand television is a total dud. I have Grand Designs style delusions about decorating my flat but I can't even afford a hoover. The hardest part for me is that I still owe my parents money, the bank is a faceless, nameless organisation but not being able start paying off my parental debt is hard, considering how much they have done for me.<u></u><u></u></div>
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I’ve always been a bit of a square when it comes to rules.
I’m blaming it on the omnipresent Catholic guilt but in reality I think it’s
just one of my inherently annoying, ingrained personality traits. I will shush
people on the quiet coach, follow a cake recipe to the letter, and police a
game of Monopoly until the other players actually stop having fun. My mother
has told me, on several occasions, to ‘chill out,’ a bitter pill to swallow
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Breaking rules
doesn’t come easily to me and my rebellions have been small and sometimes
insignificant. Yet without them I wouldn’t be where I am today. At 16, when my
peers were acting out, drinking stolen spirits in local parks and getting off
with each other, I was doing maths past papers and re-reading The Great Gatsby.
A quiet rebellion against rebellion itself could have lost me my friends and,
more importantly, the very little street cred I had somehow accrued but
thankfully it didn’t. Instead, I got great grades and an unconditional to study
law at university (I genuinely thought I was going to be Ally McBeal, in quirky
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After 4 years of
law, I rebelled again, telling my wonderfully supportive parents that I didn’t
want to be a lawyer, but thanks for funding the last four years of cider-fuelled
debauchery. As it turns out, budget tailoring doesn’t suit me. Another year,
and one journalism diploma later, I found myself living back at home with Mum
and Dad, working part time in a shoe shop and unleashing my creativity in
regular, self-obsessed blog posts. In these dark days leaving my bed unmade or
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While some may
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sort of bravery to stand against the stereotypical rebellion. Sometimes, doing
the right thing is harder than doing the wrong thing and at times I have found
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I have a job that I love, a flat that is mine, and my hair is finally at its
optimal length after an ill-fated Alexa Chung-inspired bob last October. I eat
too much, I binge drink, but I am content.
The only negative energy in my life is the knowledge that aged 10 I
stole a packet of cheese and onion Frisps while manning the school tuck shop.
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Sundays were made for long lies, long walks (if you’re that way inclined), eating delicious food and lazily flicking through fashion magazines. Unfortunately, all too often my Sundays are spent in a duvet den hell of my own making; hungover and miserable with the bitter aftertaste of gin and self-loathing in my drier than the Sahara mouth. After two particularly raucous Saturday nights out in a row, last night I spent the evening swaddled in grey cotton, eating devilish food and holding back tears at reality TV shows. It was a pretty great night.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Today I awoke, fresh as a daisy, despite losing an hour to British Summer Time, and have actually seen some of Sunday; from my bedroom window at least. The sun is shining, the birds are chirping: it’s all very uplifting. So uplifting in fact, that for the first time in weeks I have taken the time to sit down and write this post. (I also watched an episode of Sex and the City last night and typing on a laptop while gazing out of the window makes me feel all glamorous and Carrie-esque.)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Anyway, incoherent, self-indulgent rambling aside, I have been buying lots of lovely new things recently: some of which, shamefully, still have their labels on. I was hoping to post some real life, non-instagramed up photos of said new things but it appears I have misplaced my camera cable so consider this a cliffhanger...</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">PS. If somebody could send me a Macbook Pro and a new camera that would be ideal and would definitely improve my blog ten fold. And while I’m making unreasonable demands I’m also in the market for Miranda Kerr’s rocking bod and this ridiculously good Acne aviator jacket.</span></div>
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<br /></div>Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-4896118310167511752012-02-21T12:53:00.001+00:002012-02-21T12:54:44.835+00:00I am a fashionbeasta. fashionbeasta: a wannabe fashionista who likes kit kats too much<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;">
<span style="font-family: inherit;">Once upon a time I had a blog. Now, I have an out of date collection of my inane musings gathering cyber dust, much like my home laptop which sadly only gets used for watching guff on TV.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Today I got my Topshop NEWGEN Mary Katrantzou t-shirt through the post along with a totes adorable limited edition free tote bag and the sad reality is I probably WON’T post a photo of me wearing it. The reasons for this are twofold: I am still carrying a little Christmas weight (approx 100lbs of quality street) and I’ll probably wear it with the same jeans I wear EVERY DAY and my Dr Martens.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Since my last post I have definitely bought a fair few things but nobody really needs me to talk about the seamless footies I picked up in Primark. In case you are curious footies are those funny little socks that are even smaller than trainer socks designed to wear with pumps and stuff. This stuff is blogging GOLD. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Obviously it has not escaped my attention that it’s London Fashion Week at the moment (my Twitter timeline is rife with #LFW related tweets and with each one I read I think I turn a little more green) and rather than go into detail about shows I haven’t attended I will simply say this: I NEED Alexa Chung’s JW Anderson paisley print pyjama style trousers in my life immediately.</span></div>
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkZW2O2KSrDDjmE3jQdGaam1zbLZ1vn43SNnqexFP27f3pq6zggbYIMaisMSNi73NLOVqrioH-7C4AQclS2Cyu_yjYqQEQLPjyHg6MeWdaJl7MGesuUhgkYXenhNb8xIYJj34vHzGhTfnq/s1600/maryk.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" lda="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkZW2O2KSrDDjmE3jQdGaam1zbLZ1vn43SNnqexFP27f3pq6zggbYIMaisMSNi73NLOVqrioH-7C4AQclS2Cyu_yjYqQEQLPjyHg6MeWdaJl7MGesuUhgkYXenhNb8xIYJj34vHzGhTfnq/s320/maryk.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Charlottehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13038497095410573420noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450294431647274307.post-42100963358500446802012-01-17T21:00:00.002+00:002012-01-17T21:00:42.188+00:00I'm too tired to be fabulousI always had this idea that when I was an 'adult' I would be fabulous. I don't really like the word fabulous but I do like what it implies albeit somewhat cheesily. My naive, child-self thought that by 24 I would be living somewhere cool, with an enviable wardrobe, exotic lifestyle and most importantly, immaculate, shiny hair. Oh if only I knew then what I know now.<br />
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Don't get me wrong, I really like my life but I simply don't have the time or the energy to be fabulous. Tonight, for example; I came in from the gym, ate my dinner (steak sandwich-delicious), put my gym stuff in the wash, paired some socks, and am now just waiting patiently in my pj's for Masterchef to start. The most exciting part of my evening was probably laying out my outfit for work tomorrow, or listening to my dad curse after he dropped his dinner and the dog got it.<br />
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I see so many bloggers post insanely beautiful pictures day after day; they go wonderful and exciting places and they always look incredible. I go to Livingston (arse end of nowhere) and sometimes Starbucks or Nandos. My hair is rarely shiny or immaculate and my wardrobe is shady, at best. But I'm only 24, I've still got a whole lifetime to try to be fabulous!<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.westfieldstylenotes.com/tag/olivia-palermo/" target="_blank">Something to strive for-Olivia Palermo is definitely FABULOUS</a></td></tr>
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